Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Real Ratna:A. P. J. Abdul Kalam

Avul Pakir Jainulabdeen Abdul Kalam (Tamil: அவுல் பகீர் ஜைனுலாப்தீன் அப்துல் கலாம்) born 15 October 1931 in Rameshwaram, Madras Presidency, British India (now Tamil Nadu, India), usually referred to as Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam^, was the 11th President of India, serving from 2002 to 2007,[2] he was elected during the tenure of the National Democratic Alliance (India) coalition government, under prime minister Atal Bihari Vajpayee. During his term as President, he was popularly known as the People's President.

Before his term as India's president, he worked as an aeronautical engineer with DRDO and ISRO. He is popularly known as the Missile Man of India for his work on development of ballistic missile and space rocket technology. In India he is highly respected as a scientist and as an engineer.

Kalam played a pivotal organisational, technical and political role in India's Pokhran-II nuclear test in 1998, the first since the original nuclear test by India in 1974. He is chancellor of Indian Institute of Space Science and Technology(Thiruvanthapuram), a professor at Anna University (Chennai) and adjunct/visiting faculty at many other academic and research institutions across India.

With the death of R. Venkataraman on 27 January 2009, Kalam became the only surviving former President of India.


Political views

In his book India 2020 APJ Abdul Kalam strongly advocates an action plan to develop India into a knowledge superpower and into a developed nation by the year 2020. He regards his work on India's nuclear weapons program as a way to assert India's place as a future superpower.

It has been reported that there is considerable demand in South Korea for translated versions of books authored by him.

Kalam continues to take an active interest in other developments in the field of science and technology. He has proposed a research programme for developing bio-implants. He is a supporter of Open source software over proprietary solutions and believes that the use of open source software on a large scale will bring the benefits of information technology to more people.

As an aerospace engineer

After graduating in Science from St. Joseph's College in Tiruchirapalli, Abdul Kalam graduated with a diploma in the mid-1950s from Madras Institute of Technology specializing in Aeronautical Engineering. As the Project Director, he was heavily involved in the development of India's first indigenous Satellite Launch Vehicle (SLV-III). As Chief Executive of Integrated Guided Missile Development Programme (IGMDP), he also played a major part in developing many missiles of India including Agni and Prithvi. Although the entire project has been criticised for being overrun and mismanaged. He was the Chief Scientific Adviser to Prime Minister and Secretary, Department of Defence Research & Development from July 1992 to December 1999. Pokhran-II nuclear tests were conducted during this period, led by him.

Honours

On Wednesday 29 April 2009, he became the first Asian to be bestowed the 2008 Hoover Medal, America's top engineering prize, for his outstanding contribution to public service. The citation said that he is being recognised for making state-of-the-art healthcare available to the common man at affordable prices, bringing quality medical care to rural areas by establishing a link between doctors and technocrats, using spin-offs of defence technology to create state-of-the-art medical equipment and launching tele-medicine projects connecting remote rural-based hospitals to the super-specialty hospital. A pre-eminent scientist, a gifted engineer, and a true visionary, he is also a humble humanitarian in every sense of the word, it added.

On 13 September 2009, he was a recipient of the International von Kármán Wings Award.

The Government of India has honoured him with the nation's highest civilian honours: the Padma Bhushan in 1981; Padma Vibhushan in 1990; and the Bharat Ratna in 1997 for his work with ISRO and DRDO and his role as a scientific advisor to the Indian government..

Kalam is the third President of India to have been honoured with a Bharat Ratna before being elected to the highest office, the other two being Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan and Zakir Hussain. He is also the first scientist and first bachelor to occupy Rashtrapati Bhavan.

After his tenure as the president he is now a visiting guest professor at JSS university, Mysore. He has agreed to deliver a minimum of four lectures every year.

A Beautiful and Talented singer:Shreya Ghoshal

Shreya Ghoshal (Bengali:; born 12 March 1984) is an Indian singer. While she is best known for being a playback singer in Bollywood films, she has also performed several songs for other Indian film industries. Besides Hindi, she has sung songs in Assamese, Bengali, Kannada, Malayalam, Marathi, Punjabi, Tamil and Telugu.

Ghoshal's career began when she won the Sa Re Ga Ma Pa contest as an adult. Her Bollywood playback singing career began with Devdas, for which she received both the Filmfare Award for Best Female Playback Singer and the Filmfare RD Burman Award for New Music Talent. Since then, she has worked in over 140 films. She has worked with many prominent Indian musicians, and several of her songs have achieved critical and commercial success. Ghoshal is one of the most awarded playback singers in recent times, with 4 National Film Awards and 5 Filmfare Awards to her credit.

Ghoshal caught the attention of film director Sanjay Leela Bhansali when she participated in Sa Re Ga Ma Pa for a second time, this time competing as an adult. In 2000, he offered her the opportunity to be the voice of Paro, the lead female character of his film Devdas, who was portrayed by Aishwarya Rai. Shreya sang five songs under the music direction of Ismail Darbar in the film. This song earned her the Filmfare Award for Best Female Playback Singer, as well as Filmfare's RD Burman Award for New Music Talent, given to upcoming talents in music. She also won a National Film Award for the song "Bairi Piya".

Since Devdas, she went on to sing for many other actresses under the baton of various music directors, including A.R.Rahman, Anu Malik, Himesh Reshammiya, Mani Sharma, M. M. Keeravani, Nadeem-Shravan, Shankar-Ehsaan-Loy, Pritam, Vishal-Shekhar, Hamsalekha, Mano Murthy, Gurukiran, Ilayaraja,Harikrishna, Yuvan Shankar Raja and Harris Jayaraj. She has won many awards both in north and south film industries. Moviegoers from across the world heard Ghoshal’s singing voice pictured on Aishwarya Rai, and in coming years she quickly became one of the top female playback singers in Bollywood, alongside Alka Yagnik, Sunidhi Chauhan, Sadhana Sargam and Kavita Krishnamurthy.

She enjoys Symphony and instrumental in western music and her favourite group is ABBA. But Indian music according to what she says, her soul. She won three more Filmfare Awards for her performance in Pritam's song "Teri Ore" from Singh is Kinng. She is only singer to get four national awards at the age of 26 in the Hindi film industry.

National Film Awards

2003: National Film Award for Best Female Playback Singer - Bairi Piya (Devdas; Hindi)
2006: National Film Award for Best Female Playback Singer - Dheere Jalna (Paheli; Hindi)
2008: National Film Award for Best Female Playback Singer - Yeh Ishq Hai (Jab We Met; Hindi)
2009: National Film Award for Best Female Playback Singer - Jiv Dangla (Jogwa; Marathi) & Pherari Mon (Antaheen; Bengali)


Filmfare Awards

2003: Filmfare RD Burman Award for New Music Talent
2003: Filmfare Best Female Playback Award (shared with Kavita Krishnamurthy) - Dola Re (Devdas)
2004: Filmfare Best Female Playback Award - Jaadu Hai Nasha Hai (Jism)
2008: Filmfare Best Female Playback Award - Barso Re (Guru)
2009: Filmfare Best Female Playback Award - Teri Ore (Singh Is Kinng)


Filmfare Awards South

2007: Filmfare Best Female Playback Award (Tamil) - Munbe Vaa (Sillunu Oru Kaadhal)
2008: Filmfare Best Female Playback Award (Kannada) - Ninna Nodalenthu - (Mussanjemaatu
)

IIFA Awards

2003: IIFA Best Female Playback Award (shared with Kavita Krishnamurthy) - Dola Re (Devdas)
2004: IIFA Best Female Playback Award - Jadu Hai Nasha Hai (Jism)
2008: IIFA Best Female Playback Award - Barso Re (Guru)
2009: IIFA Best Female Playback Award - Teri Ore (Singh Is Kinng)



Zee Cine Awards

2003: Zee Cine Award Best Female Playback Singer (shared with Kavita Krishnamurthy) - Dola Re (Devdas)
2006: Zee Cine Award for Best FemalePlayback Singer - Piyu Bole (Parineeta)
2008: Zee Cine Award Best Female Playback Singer - Barso Re (Guru)









Star Screen Awards

2004: Star Screen Award Best Female Playback - Jadoo Hai Nasha Hai (Jism)
2006: Star Screen Award Best Female Playback - Piyu Bole (Parineeta)
2008: Star Screen Award Best Female Playback - Barso Re (Guru)






Other Awards

2003: Stardust Award - New Musical Sensation (Female) - Devdas[3]
2005: Andhra Pradesh State Award Best Female Playback Singer - Pillagaali Allari (Athadu) & Neeke Nuvvu (Modati Cinema) (Telugu)
2007: Tamil Nadu State Film Award for Best Female Playback - Munbe Vaa (Sillunu Oru Kaadhal) (Tamil)
2008: Apsara Award Best Female Playback Singer - Barso Re (Guru)[4]
2009: Apsara Award Best Female Playback Singer - Teri Ore (Singhh is Kingg)
2008: GPBA - German Public Bollywood Award Best Singer (Female) - Yeh Ishq Haaye (Jab We Met)[5]
2008: Zee Astitva Award for Excellence In Music
2010: Apsara Award Best Female Playback Singer - Tujh Mein Rab Dikhta Hai (Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi)

MOVIE:How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (2003)



Benjamin Barry is an advertising executive competing with two female co-workers for a major campaign for a diamond merchant. He cuts a deal with his competitors that the account is his if he can make a woman of their choice fall in love with him in 10 days. In comes Andie Anderson who, in turn, is writing a story on how to lose a guy in 10 days as a bet with her boss to be allowed to write more substantial stories. With a hidden agenda in each camp, will either party be able to complete their mission?

MOVIE:Dirty Dancing(1987)



In the 1960s, Frances "Baby" Houseman, a sweet daddy's girl, goes with her family to a resort in upstate New York's Catskill Mountains. Baby has grown up in privileged surroundings and all expect her to go on to college, join the Peace Corps and save the world before marrying a doctor, just like her father. Unexpectedly, Baby becomes infatuated with the camp's dance instructor, Johnny, a man whose background is vastly different from her own. Baby lies to her father to get money to pay for an illegal abortion for Johnny's dance partner (Johnny is not the father). She then fills in as Johnny's dance partner and it is as he is teaching her the dance routine that they fall in love. It all comes apart when Johnny's friend falls seriously ill after her abortion and Baby gets her father, who saves the girl's life. He then learns what Baby has been up to, who with and worse - that he funded the illegal abortion. He bans his daughter from any further association with "those people". In the first deliberately willful action of her life, Baby later sneaks out to see Johnny - ostensibly to apologize for her father's rudeness - and ends up consummating her relationship with Johnny. A jealous fellow vacationer sees Baby sneaking out of Johnny's bungalow the next morning and in an act of retribution, tells management that he is responsible for a theft the evening before, knowing he would not furnish his real whereabouts. In an act of bravery, Baby states that Johnny is innocent, and alibis him by confessing that they were together all night. This revelation causes a huge rift in the family and Baby makes an impassioned speech to her angry and bereft father. At the closing night performances, and although he has been fired and banned from attending, Johnny returns and takes the stage to tell everyone about the woman whose faith in him and whose courage changed his life. They do one final show-stopping dance together. Baby's father learns that Johnny was not responsible for his partner's pregnancy and learns to accept that although his beloved daughter is transitioning to womanhood, she will always love him.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

MOVIE:A Room with a View (1985)



Lucy Honeychurch, a young Englishwoman, makes her first visit to Florence, Italy in the early 1900's. There, she meets a quiet yet eccentric young man named George Emerson. Upon her return to England, Lucy must decide whether to follow through with her marriage to her stotic fiance, Cecil, or follow her heart and her growing attraction to George.

MOVIE:Grease (1978)



During a visit to America, Australian Sandy meets Danny Zuko at the beach and falls in love. She is heartbroken when Summer ends and she has to return home and their last kiss on the beach is a very emotional one. But fate lends a hand - her parents decide to stay in America and she finds herself attending the same school as Danny. But Danny at school is different from Danny at the beach. He is the leader of the T-Birds, a leather clad gang, and has a reputation to keep up. He can't be seen to fall in love with just one chick! Sandy is upset and seeks solace with some new friends she has made - a female gang called The Pink Ladies. But her prim and proper virginal ways do not fit in and she soon finds herself almost alone. A change must be made. Does she attempt to get her man by turning him into a jock? Or must she get rid of her "Sandra Dee" image?

MOVIE:Notting Hill(1999)



William Thacker, a travel bookstore owner working and living in Notting Hill, is barely making ends meet. He needs to rent out part of his house, his lodger whom he considers the "stupidest git" in the world. His personal life is equally in shambles as although he has a small group of dear friends, who are on the most part as equally unsuccessful professionally as him, he is divorced - she left him - with no prospect of love on the horizon. His life changes when into his bookstore walks American Anna Scott, arguably the most famous and attractive movie actress in the world. Against the odds, Anna and William become friends with the possibility of romance between the two on the horizon. But the odds of moving their relationship to that final stage are still stacked against them as they live in two different worlds, Anna's under constant public scrutiny of the gossip hungry press, who, along with the public at large, know that Anna is already in a personal relationship with equally famous movie actor, Jeff King

No destiny for love....??



When we dream of somebody,where she seems an angel...





We think SHE is the ONE...



Locking that beautiful one deep down our HEART..



Its great feeling to propose her and ...



then we Tell her not to break...


One day we come to know that there is no room for that...



And we say "NO LOVE, NO TENSION.."

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

MOVIE:What's Love Got to Do with It(1993)


Tina Turner, a young singer in Nutbush, Tennessee, is discovered by Ike Turner, an established songwriter, guitarist, and record producer. Ike takes Tina under his wing and makes her a star, but her fame makes him jealous and abusive, and she has to struggle to break free of his domination.

Tina frees herself from Ike and tries to create a solo career. She meets famous manager Roger Davies. The movie ends with a final confrontation between Ike and Tina before Tina's major show at the Ritz Theater, where Ike pulls a gun on Tina, but ultimately doesn't harm her. Tina proceeds to the stage to sing her new song "What's Love Got to Do with It."


A Beautiful Song from it:"What's Love Got To Do With It"

You must understand
That the touch of your hand
Makes my pulse react
That it's only the thrill
Of boy meeting girl
Opposites attract

It's physical
Only logical
You must try to ignore
That it means more than that

[Chorus]
Oh whats love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart
When a heart can be broken

It may seem to you
That I'm acting confused
When you're close to me
If i tend to look dazed
I've read it someplace
I've got cause to be

There's a name for it
There's a phrase that fits
But whatever the reason
You do it for me

[Chorus]

I've been taking on a new direction
But i have to say
I've been thinking about my own protection
It scares me to feel this way

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a sweet old fashioned notion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken

MOVIE:The Notebook(2004)



An old man in a nursing home reads a story to an old woman each day. The story he reads follows two young lovers named Allie Hamilton and Noah Calhoun. They met one evening at a carnival many years ago. Allie's parents separate Noah and Allie. They disapprove of Noah's lack of wealth, and move Allie away. After waiting for Noah to write her for several years, Allie meets and becomes engaged to a handsome young soldier named Lon. In a local newspaper, Noah's picture catches Allie's eye. He is standing in front of a fully restored, 200 year old home. The article is filled with praise for his accomplishments. Allie's heart nearly bursts. The last time she saw this house it was a rotted decaying shamble. She stood enfolded in Noah's arms in the great entryway and listened to his plans to buy and restore this house. Just the way she wanted it. With her love for Noah still alive, the picture pulls at her heart. She has to go back, see if Noah is okay, and tell him about her marriage. They both think the echo deep in their hearts, the one that has lasted all these years, is not shared by the other. The cry they could not stifle. It wasn't over for me

MOVIE:Adventureland (2009)



In 1987, James Brennan's dreams of a summer European tour before studying at an Ivy League school in New York City are ruined after his parents have a severe career setback. As a result, James must get a summer job to cover his upcoming expenses at the decrepit local amusement park, Adventureland, where he falls in love with a witty co-worker, Emily Lewin. In that bizarrely shady workplace, the young carnies have unforgettable and painful learning experiences about life, love and trust while James discovers what he truly values

MOVIE:The Lizzie McGuire Movie (2003)



When Lizzie and Gordo finally graduate, Rome, Italy, here they come! Lizzie, Gordo, and all the new high schoolers to be are excited about seeing Roma. Not so excited when they're accompanied by the not so sunshiny Mrs. ungermeyer. So when Lizzie is discovered by Paolo, a famous 17 year old Italian pop star, she must sneak away from Ungermeyer, the class, and everyone associated except Gordo. She finds out she was picked out because Lizzie, with her blonde hair, looks like the brunette half of the duet, Isabella. Isabella and Paolo have broken up, and Isabella is on the island. Lizzie thinks Paolo is falling for her, but all he's doing is trying not to get sued. When she finds out from Gordo, she won't believe him. Yet, he covers for her to the extent of getting sent home. Meeting Isabella there, he explains it all to her wondering mind. When they foul out Paolo at the Music Awards, Isabella and Lizzie sing together a pop version of a softer ballad. Lizzie finished the song. Later on, Lizzie apologizes to Gordo, and they seem to be getting along very well. Will a new Romance in Roma evolve?

A Beautiful Song from it:

Hey now, hey now
Hey now, hey now

Have you ever seen such a beautiful night
I could almost kiss the stars for shining so bright
Then I see you smiling as I go oh, oh, oh
I would never want to miss this
Cause in my heart I know what this is

Chorus:
Hey now, hey now,
This is what dreams are made of
Hey now, hey now,
This is what dreams are made of
I�ve got somewhere I belong
I�ve got somebody to love
This is what dreams are made of

(Hey now, hey now, hey now this is what dreams are made of)

Have you ever wondered what life is about
You could search the world and never figure it out (figure it out)
You don�t have to sail all the oceans no, no, no
Happiness is no mystery
It�s here and now
It�s you and me, yea

Chorus: x1

(Hey now, hey now, hey now, hey now, hey now, hey now, hey now)

Open your eyes (this is what dreams are made of)
Shout to the sky (this is what dreams are made of)
Then I see you smiling as I go oh, oh, oh
Yesterday my life was duller
Now everything's techni-color

Hey now, hey now,
This is what dreams are made of
Hey now, hey now,
This is what dreams are made of
I�ve got somewhere I belong
I�ve got somebody to love
This is what dreams, dreams
This is what dreams are made of
Hey now, hey now (hey, hey, hey)
Hey now (hey, hey, hey)
This is what dreams hey now hey now (hey, hey, hey)
This is what dreams are
Dreams are made of

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

MOVIE:Princess Protection Program




When an evil dictator threatens to take over the kingdom, Princess Rosalinda gets put into the Princess Protection Program. She is taken under the wing of General Joe Mason, an agent from the agency, and his daughter, Carter, who works after school at a nearby bait shop. Rosalinda goes undercover as a regular teen named, Rosie with the help of Carter. In turn, Rosalinda helps Carter overcome insecurities with herself and her crush on Donny.

MOVIE: Camp Rock(2008)



Camp Rock tells the rock n' roll Cinderella story of Mitchie Torres, a teen with an amazing voice and a driving ambition to be a pop singer who wants to spend her summer at a prestigious rock camp. Unfortunately, an expensive music camp is a bit out of reach for her family, but her mother gets a job as Camp Rock's cook so that Mitchie can attend as long as she helps out in the kitchen between classes. Befriended by fellow camp member Caitlyn but intimidated by the immensely talented Tess Tyler and her friends Peggy and Ella, Mitchie lives a double life hiding that she is the cook's daughter and posing as a well-to-do camper in order to become part of the hottest clique at camp. When she's overheard singing, but not seen, by teen pop star and celebrity camp instructor, plus lead singer of Connect Three, Shane Gray, he is completely taken and sets out to find the girl behind the beautiful voice. Meanwhile, Mitchie will have to learn how to confront her fears, step out of the kitchen and into the spotlight as herself.

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Sunday, March 21, 2010

TRUST may be....

1)Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."
The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand."
"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.
"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.

"If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,
you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...
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2)what are the signs that your boyfriend cheating in a long distanace relationship?

Answers (may be)::

If you have been phoning or emailing each other and he contacts you less and less. If he was making an effort on his holidays or long weekends to come see you and he has stopped doing this, then it sounds like he has lost interest. Long distance relationships are tough to hang onto and please take solace in the fact that there are so many people who have long distance relationships that break-up.
I would simply go visit him and see what is up (if you can) and communicate one-on-one and find out where your relationship stands. If he's ignoring you, then you must move on. There are a lot of other nice guys out there.
Good luck Marcy
Answer
Two words: Unavailability and Inconsistency..these two things ALWAYS mean something is up.
Answer
Trust your intuition. I didn't think my boyfriend would ever cheat but there was this gut feeling that wasn't there before. The signs you should look for:
1. His contact pattern with you changes. He doesn't instant message, call or send emails as often (or he starts sending more of them to cover up) or changes his routine times for doing these sorts of things, ie. he is unavailable when he used to available. Rather than wanting to spend all night chatting he has to cut his conversation with you short to "do something". I noticed my CBF's IM messages to me were lagging when we were online. I found out it was because he was talking to me and someone else at the same time.
2. He starts talking about new places he "checked out on his own" or with new "friend(s)" when he is really not that kind of guy. Or, he starts talking to you about topics that never interested him before and not related to his work but is now compelling to him.
3. He stops sharing details about his life. For instance, you have to draw out who these "new friend(s)" are and how they met etc. You may also notice when you are in town you never get to meet the "new friend(s)" because he wants to spend 24/7 with you (not true, but you will want to believe it). You may also notice that he doesn't take you to the "cool place" he discovered when he was out and about on his own or with his new "buddy". He gets angry at you or accuses you of controling, snoopy or being bossy when you ask about his new friends. He reminds you that he is allowed to have friends that are just his friends not yours.
4. He no longer wants you to tag along to the grocery store, to get his hair cut or other little errand (you will find he was off making a call to her or trying to meet with her). Before he wouldn't dream of leaving you at home alone.
5. Rather than begging you to come down and see him he encourages you to catch up with your friends or work over the week-end or tells you that he has to work all week-end himself and he won't have much time for you if you come down so you might want to think of staying home (truth - he has a date with someone else).
6. When you come down to see him he has spruced up his place or asks you to help him pick out some new towels or plates or some other housekeeping item he has never showed an interest in before (he wants to make a good impression on the new woman). Ditto on the clothing front. If he has invested in new clothes and is on a diet chances are pretty good that he isn't doing it to look good for you.
7. You notice new bath products in the bathroom. New linens in the bedroom. Fresh flowers already in a vase looking a couple days old in his house. Or things that you placed in the bathroom are moved or no longer there.
8. His computer now has a password when it didn't before. You notice that he now wipes out the history files on his computer (this is to make sure you can't follow what he has been up to - can you say dating web site). He switches the computer screen when you walk into the room or tries to hide the screen from you. He turns his computer off or no longer wants you to use it to surf or check your email.
9. His car smells different or he starts using cologne or buys a new scent when he never used the stuff before.
10. He starts being short or critical with you over little things. Or asks "why you don't ever ....." (fill in with something the new woman does he likes or even dislikes).
11. He makes sure you have all your stuff before you leave. Before he began cheating my CBF could care less if I left something behind because I would get it another time.
12. He switches tenses. When he used to talk about the two of you he is now just talking about himself, ie. "We should go to..." is now "I should go to ...". Other examples: "We should get a puppy" is now "I have been thinking of getting a puppy" or "Where should we go on vacation this year" is now "I am thinking of going to ..." or "Our house" is now "My house". Little subtle and not subtle shifts in talking.
13. He comments on you losing or gaining weight when you have done no such thing. (Someone else he has been grabbing onto is bigger or smaller than you.)
14. He likes clothes on you he used to hate on you. For me it was pointy toed pumps. My CBF used to hate it when I wore them and asked me not to wear them when we went out together. After he started cheating he told me he loved pointy toed pumps and I should get a pair.
15. He starts accusing you of cheating on him when you are not together. This is reverse psycology or him trying to sooth his own guilt. He may also start complaining more than usual about the long distance thing. He may encourage you to move to where he is or question where the relationship is going to. Instead of wanting to seriously talk about it though he quickly changes the topic. Again, this justifies in his mind his cheating.
16. You catch him in a series of small nonsensical lies.
17. He seems to have less money to do things with or doesn't want to go out and do things with you. (He is spending his money on dates with the new woman and is either pooped out from all that entertaining or doesn't want to risk being scene in public with you.)
18. Your gut/intuition/6th sense whatever is screaming at you something is just not quite right.
Please be reminded that they will lie, lie, and bold fast lie even though you may not have ever known them to be a liar about anything ever before. They will call you paranoid, psycho, jealous, unreasonable and just crazy because they love only you. I hit my CBF with cold hard irrefutable evidence of his cheating and he still lied about it.
Good Luck.
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3)Four reasons to break up with your girlfriend..

Answer(may be) :


YOU ARE LEADING HER ON

If you are with a woman who you know is falling for you, but you are aware that you are personally not falling in love with her, then you owe it to this woman to spare her feelings and end the relationship. Women sometimes have the tendency to let themselves become attached to a man that is not attached to them. If you do not see a future with your girlfriend
, then don’t have a present with her. You can’t keep a lady around just because you can stand her. You can’t stay in a relationship out of convenience. You should never continue a romance that you are not invested in just for the physical rewards. If you are not intending to take this relationship to the next level, and you know that the girl that you are with is already picking out china patterns, then you have to do the right thing: break it off. If you care about her at all, then you owe it to her not to lead her on. The only reason to continue a relationship is because you believe that there is a future in it. You can date and you can have flings with women with no intention of building a relationship, but you have to be honest with the women that you are with so that they do not end up feeling deceived and manipulated.


SHE CAN’T BE TRUSTED

your girlfriend has been unfaithful to you, and you are unable to trust her, then you should break up with her. This is not to say that there are no circumstances in which cheating should be forgiven, but you have to evaluate that on an individual basis. First of all, do you think that she is truly remorseful and will not do it again, or do you think that she is just sorry that she got caught? You have to decide if you will be able to have faith in your relationship anymore. If you are not able to trust your girlfriend, then you need to break up with her. You will become a jealous person if you stay in a relationship with someone that you do not believe in. You should be with a woman who is mature enough to be honest with you. If your girlfriend felt she needed to stray from the relationship, then you should wonder why. Have you been unfaithful to her? Do the two of you spend as much time together as you did when you first started the relationship? She might have been looking for someone to talk to when you were emotionally unavailable, and what started off as innocent flirtation led to infidelity
. People do make mistakes, but if the mistake is going to cause you to be insecure and paranoid in your relationship, then you should break it off.



YOUR LIFE HAS CHANGED FOR THE WORSE

Relationships can change your life, but the goal is for your life to be changed for the better, not the worse. If you feel like you are no longer a happy and confident person when you are with your girlfriend, then you are in an unhealthy relationship. Having a girlfriend is not worth sacrificing your happiness. Sometimes if a guy who is very inexperienced with women gets a girlfriend, he wants to stay in the relationship even if the woman is a witch to him. If you are a man who has had a hard time playing the dating game, you might have resigned yourself to the idea that you have to settle for whoever will be with you. Wrong! You are better off alone than with someone who does not treat you with care and respect. It is unfair to you to settle for someone who does not value you. You deserve to be with someone who shows you the same love and kindness as you show them. If your girlfriend embarrasses you in front of your friends by demeaning you or if she is constantly pointing out your flaws and imperfections, then you owe it to yourself to break up with her and find someone who is deserving of your love.



YOUR GUILTY CONSCIENCE

Sometimes a man will stay with a woman because he feels that it will destroy her if he ends the relationship. If you care about a woman, but you are no longer in love with her, then it is in both of your best interests in the long run to end the relationship. Your girlfriend does not want to be in a relationship with someone who cares about her on a purely platonic level. She may be very hurt and saddened to see your relationship come to a close, but if you are not invested in this relationship, it is not going to survive, and the longer that you wait to end it, the worse things will become. You can feel bad that you are breaking her heart, but you should not feel guilty for being honest about your feelings.

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4)Why do we trust people we perceive to be similar to ourselves?

answer:


Surprisingly, the answers are simple. Trust between people is based on the perception that efforts between the parties will be reciprocated, reactions will be predictable, and members of the organization will least likely be faced with situations in which they are unprepared. The desire for security is a key motivator in developing trusting relationships in an organization.

Perception. People tend to more readily accept those who have similar backgrounds and common life elements with which they can identify. We think those similar to ourselves will react to a situation in a predictable manner. People want to appear consistent in their behavior, and respond to others who appear consistent. According to a Baylor University Academic Journal, “trust is based on a perception of the probability that other agents will behave in a way that is expected (Gambetta, 1988)” (Entrepreneurship: Theory and Practice, July 2006).

Persuasion is how we are influenced to trust based on our environment and life experiences. The persuasion to trust a person can be brought about by our peers, our needs, and the availability of opportunities which support our way of life. Persuasion motivates us to accept and trust people, ideas, principles, faiths, and respect authority.

According to Robert Cialdini(1), there are six characteristics of human nature which come into play to bring forth a favorable response in persuasion. These are “reciprocation, consistency, social validation, liking, authority, and scarcity.” These elements will either positively or negatively influence a person to make a decision about trusting someone they have just met, and understanding the effects of
persuasion can improve relationships within an organization.

Someone who has not gained our trust may seem like a wild card, and when gaging the successful outcome we hope the deck is stacked in our favor. This fear of failure allows us to justify exclusions within the workplace, even if we know the exclusions are unfair or wrong. If we have to share responsibility for the outcome of a project, we want to give ourselves every advantage possible..

Saturday, March 20, 2010

IPL 2010 teams

R Ashwin L Balaji C Ganapathy MS Gony SB Jakati M Muralidaran M Ntini

S Tyagi Joginder Sharma KB Arun Karthik S Badrinath GJ Bailey

ML Hayden MEK Hussey SK Raina M Vijay T Thushara JA Morkel

JDP Oram NLTC Perera JM Kemp MS Dhoni PA Patel

AB Agarkar AB Dinda M Kartik BAW Mendis CK Langeveldt I Sharma

Iqbal Abdulla Eklakh Ahmed MB Parmar SE Bond BJ Hodge

CA Pujara OA Shah MK Tiwary Harshad Khadiwale SC Ganguly

CH Gayle AD Mathews G Vignesh LR Shukla Harpreet Singh

Mandeep Singh WP Saha


PP Ojha Harmeet Singh RP Singh KAJ Roach R Sharma Jaskarandeep Singh

Bhuttar AA Bilakhia HH Gibbs VVS Laxman DB RaviTeja RG Sharma

TL Suman AS Yadav Anirudh Singh DR Smith A Symonds WPUJC Vaas

Y Venugopal Rao MR Marsh B Sumanth MD Mishra AA Reddy AC Gilchrist


CRD Fernando Zaheer Khan DS Kulkarni SL Malinga Harbhajan Singh

AN Ahmed SR Tendulkar S Dhawan J-P Duminy AT Rayudu SS Tiwary

DJ Bravo ST Jayasuriya R McLaren GR Napier AM Nayar KA Pollard

AG Murtaza R Sathish KS Sahabuddin STR Binny AP Tare Sarabjit Singh


R Bhatia A Mishra DP Nannes A Nehra AM Salvi PJ Sangwan U Yadav WD Parnel

l S Ladda Sarandeep Singh VY Mahesh G Gambhir AB de Villiers TM Dilshan

M Manhas V Sehwag DA Warner KM Jadhav MC Henriques MF Maharoof
Joginder Singh Y Nagar KD Karthik



SK Warne Kamran Khan M Morkel MM Patel SW Tait SK Trivedi A Uniyal

AP Dole SA Asnodkar DR Martyn MJ Lumb FY Fazal AA Jhunjhunwala

AG Paunikar AS Raut P Dogra AD Mascarenhas YK Pathan S Narwal

SB Wagh AC Voges NV Ojha


L Ablish B Lee PP Chawla RR Powar SJ Srivastava S Sreesanth VS Malik

YA Abdulla Amanpreet Singh AK Argal AB Barath K Goel DPMD Jayawardene

M Kaif RS Bopara TM Srivastava Yuvraj Singh S Sohal IK Pathan

RS Sodhi Bipul Sharma Kumar Sangakkara MS Bisla



A Kumble KP Apanna D du Preez A Mithun Praveen Kumar DW Steyn

R Vinay Kumar Pankaj Singh SS Bandekar UB Patel R Dravid V Kohli

MK Pandey RV Uthappa Eoin Morgan B Akhil Bhuvneshwar Kumar

JH Kallis RE van der Merwe S Sriram MV Boucher SP Goswami CM Gautam

IPL-Indian (Premier)Powerful League



The Feast of cricket is served ithe fest of IPL.Started its new season on march 12,2010.

About IPL :

The Indian Premier League (IPL) is an annual franchise-based Twenty20 competition organised by the Indian board. First held in 2008, it features many of the world's best cricketers playing for eight city-based franchises, owned by a host of businessmen and celebrity consortiums. The tournament's initial success stemmed from India's winning the inaugural ICC World Twenty20 but the IPL has itself spawned several competitions, current and planned, including the Champions League.

Apart from the franchise concept - cricket's traditional region-based team composition has been replaced by an auction and transfer system - what marks out the IPL is the money involved. The Indian board netted US$ 1.75 billion from the tournament even before a ball had been bowled - from the sale of TV and other rights. The players are making money too: There are now ten players on contracts worth more than $1 million annually, for what is effectively five weeks' work. The big money involved, and its appeal to cricketers, has upset the sport's traditionalists but it is clearly part of cricket's future.

DLF IPL 2010 Schedule has been announced by Indian Premier League chairman Mr. Lalit Modi. Cricket fans are excited about IPL season 3 as it will be held in India this time. IPL will start on 12 March 2010 and ends on 25 April 2010.

IPL has had 2 seasons till now with Rajasthan Royals emerging as the winner of IPL 2008 and Deccan Chargers as the winner of IPL 2009.


Schedule for the matches is given below.

12th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Deccan Chargers vs Kolkata Knight Riders – 1st Match
Venue – Navi Mumbai

13th March 2010, 03:00 p.m IST
Mumbai Indians vs Rajasthan Royals- 2nd Match
Venue – Mumbai

13th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Delhi Daredevils vs Kings XI Punjab – 3rd Match
Venue – Mohali

14th March 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Bangalore Royal Challengers vs Kolkata Knight Riders – 4th Match
Venue – Kolkata

14th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Chennai Super Kings vs Deccan Chargers – 5th Match
Venue – Chennai

15th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Delhi Daredevils vs Rajasthan Royals – 06th Match
Venue – Ahmedabad

16th March 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Bangalore Royal Challengers vs Kings XI Punjab – 07th Match
Venue – Bangalore

16th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Chennai Super Kings vs Kolkata Knight Riders – 08th Match
Venue – Kolkata

17th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Delhi Daredevils vs Mumbai Indians – 09th Match
Venue – Delhi

18th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Bangalore Royal Challengers vs Rajasthan Royals – 10th Match
Venue – Bangalore

19th March 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Chennai Super Kings vs Delhi Daredevils – 11th Match
Venue – Delhi

19th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Deccan Chargers vs Kings XI Punjab – 12th Match
Venue – Cuttack


20th March 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Kolkata Knight Riders vs Rajasthan Royals – 13th Match
Venue – Ahmedabad

20th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Bangalore Royal Challengers vs Mumbai Indians – 14th Match
Venue – Mumbai

21st March 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Deccan Chargers vs Delhi Daredevils – 15th Match
Venue – Cuttack

21st March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Chennai Super Kings vs Kings XI Punjab – 16th Match
Venue – Chennai

22nd March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kolkata Knight Riders vs Mumbai Indians – 17th Match
Venue – Mumbai

23rd March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Bangalore Royal Challengers vs Chennai Super Kings – 18th Match
Venue – Bangalore

24th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kings XI Punjab vs Rajasthan Royals – 19th Match
Venue – Mohali

25th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Chennai Super Kings vs Mumbai Indians – 20th Match
Venue – Mumbai

26th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Deccan Chargers vs Rajasthan Royals – 21st Match
Venue – Ahmedabad

27th March 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Kings XI Punjab vs Kolkata Knight Riders – 22nd Match
Venue – Mohali

27th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Bangalore Royal Challengers vs Delhi Daredevils – 23rd Match
Venue – Bangalore

28th March 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Chennai Super Kings vs Rajasthan Royals – 24th Match
Venue – Ahmedabad

28th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Deccan Chargers vs Mumbai Indians – 25th Match
Venue – Navi Mumbai


29th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Delhi Daredevils vs Kolkata Knight Riders – 26th Match
Venue – Delhi

30th March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kings XI Punjab vs Mumbai Indians – 27th Match
Venue – Mumbai

31st March 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Bangalore Royal Challengers vs Chennai Super Kings – 28th Match
Venue – Chennai

31st March 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Rajasthan Royals vs Delhi Daredevils – 29th Match
Venue – Delhi

01st April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kolkata Knight Riders vs Deccan Chargers – 30th Match
Venue – Kolkata

02nd April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kings XI Punjab vs Bangalore Royal Challengers – 31st Match
Venue – Mohali

03rd April 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Rajasthan Royals vs Chennai Super Kings – 32nd Match
Venue – Chennai

03rd April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Mumbai Indians vs Deccan Chargers – 33rd Match
Venue – Mumbai

04th April 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Kolkata Knight Riders vs Kings XI Punjab – 34th Match
Venue – Kolkata

04th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Delhi Daredevils vs Bangalore Royal Challengers – 35th Match
Venue – Delhi

05th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Rajasthan Royals vs Deccan Chargers – 36th Match
Venue – Nagpur

06th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Mumbai Indians vs Chennai Super Kings – 37th Match
Venue – Chennai

07th April 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Rajasthan Royals vs Kings XI Punjab – 38th Match
Venue – Jaipur

07th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kolkata Knight Riders vs Delhi Daredevils – 39th Match
Venue – Kolkata

08th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Deccan Chargers vs Bangalore Royal Challengers – 40th Match
Venue – Bangalore

09th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Mumbai Indians vs Kings XI Punjab – 41st Match
Venue – Mohali

10th April 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Deccan Chargers vs Chennai Super Kings – 42nd Match
Venue – Nagpur

10th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kolkata Knight Riders vs Bangalore Royal Challengers – 43rd Match
Venue – Bangalore

11th April 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Kings XI Punjab vs Delhi Daredevils – 44th Match
Venue – Delhi

11th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Rajasthan Royals vs Mumbai Indians – 45th Match
Venue – Jaipur

12th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Deccan Chargers vs Bangalore Royal Challengers – 46th Match
Venue – Nagpur

13th April 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Mumbai Indians vs Delhi Daredevils – 47th Match
Venue – Mumbai

13th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kolkata Knight Riders vs Chennai Super Kings – 48th Match
Venue – Chennai

14th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Rajasthan Royals vs Bangalore Royal Challengers – 49th Match
Venue – Jaipur

15th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Delhi Daredevils vs Chennai Super Kings – 50th Match
Venue – Chennai

16th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Kings XI Punjab vs Deccan Chargers – 51st Match
Venue – Dharamshala

17th April 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Mumbai Indians vs Bangalore Royal Challengers – 52nd Match
Venue – Bangalore

17th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Rajasthan Royals vs Kolkata Knight Riders – 53rd Match
Venue – Kolkata

18th April 2010, 04:00 p.m IST
Kings XI Punjab vs Chennai Super Kings – 54th Match
Venue – Dharamshala

18th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Delhi Daredevils vs Deccan Chargers- 55th Match
Venue – Delhi

19th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Mumbai Indians vs Kolkata Knight Riders – 56th Match
Venue – Kolkata

21st April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
1st Semi Final Match – Team 1 vs Team 2 – 57th Match
Venue – Bangalore

22nd April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
2nd Semi Final Match – Team 3 vs Team 4 – 58th Match
Venue – Bangalore

24th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
Play-off for 3rd Place – Team A vs Team B – 59th Match
Venue – Navi Mumbai

25th April 2010, 08:00 p.m IST
IPL 2010 Final Match – Team 1 vs Team 2 – 60th Match
Venue – Navi Mumbai

Friday, March 19, 2010

twilight saga: New Moon


Bella Swan is still very much in love with vampire, Edward Cullen. The rest of the vampire coven who call themselves the Cullens, especially Alice, decide to throw Bella a private party for her eighteenth birthday. Things go wrong when Bella slices her finger and thirst overcomes the vampires. As a result of the danger Bella was put through, the Cullen family decide to leave Forks, Washington. At first Bella exempts herself from all social activities, until she realizes she can coexist with childhood friend, Jacob Black. As usual for Bella, things aren't what they seem. Something is happening to Jacob that he can't explain to Bella, and their friendship starts to deteriorate. But when someone from Bella's past comes back to haunt her, everything will change again..
Bella feels her life is over. Enter Jacob Black, a member of the Quilite tribe who manages to bring some joy and meaning back into Bella's life. However as the two become closer, Bella discovers Jacob has a secret of his own- he's a werewolf. As if that wasn't bad enough Bella can't seem to get the love of her life, Edward out of her mind. With new dangers, new friends and new enemies, Bella finds herself choosing between holding on to the past or accepting a new future. But what and more importantly who will she choose?

The Twilight Zone..




Bella Swan has always been a little bit different. Never one to run with the crowd, Bella never cared about fitting in with the trendy, plastic girls at her Phoenix, Arizona high school. When her mother remarried and Bella chooses to live with her father in the rainy little town of Forks, Washington, she didn't expect much of anything to change. But things do change when she meets the mysterious and dazzlingly beautiful Edward Cullen. For Edward is nothing like any boy she's ever met. He's nothing like anyone she's ever met, period. He's intelligent and witty, and he seems to see straight into her soul. In no time at all, they are swept up in a passionate and decidedly unorthodox romance - unorthodox because Edward really isn't like the other boys. He can run faster than a mountain lion. He can stop a moving car with his bare hands. Oh, and he hasn't aged since 1918. Like all vampires, he's immortal. That's right - vampire. But he doesn't have fangs - that's just in the movies. And he doesn't drink human blood, though Edward and his family are unique among vampires in that lifestyle choice. To Edward, Bella is that thing he has waited 90 years for - a soul mate. But the closer they get, the more Edward must struggle to resist the primal pull of her scent, which could send him into an uncontrollable frenzy. Somehow or other, they will have to manage their unmanageable love. But when unexpected visitors come to town and realize that there is a human among them Edward must fight to save Bella? A modern, visual, and visceral Romeo and Juliet story of the ultimate forbidden love affair - between vampire and mortal..

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Hi..the life is so small..

to enjoy it..

to curse it...

and

to

make it..

let every second counts..